Women writers: Don’t be too opinionated
Whenever Dr Mumbo needs advice, he turns to LinkedIn.
So he was inspired to tap into the wisdom of Singaporean blogger and Social Bakers account manager Jeraldine Phneah, on the subject of how to build a following.
Her most intriguing advice was for the ladies: know your place.
“Adopt a conciliatory tone, try not to sound overly opinionated/ aggressive as it doesn’t work well with Asian audiences and female writers,” explained Phneah.
Curiously, the column no longer seems to be online, although Dr Mumbo can’t think why.
For those who missed out, luckily there are similar sources available, such as this enduring gem from British comedian legend Harry Enfield, whereby a woman learns the consequences of speaking out of turn.
You heard it first women: “Know your limits”. At least in Asia anyway.
I feel some clarity is needed here. When I made this statement, I was thinking of the sexism received often by female current affairs bloggers i.e. sexual harassment, being stalked online, gender-based insults. The risk we face makes it especially important for us to moderate our tone.
Is it fair? Not at all. But do I see it happen often? Absolutely. I thus recommended an open and empathetic approach to writing. It shows the audience that you understand their perspective, and is especially effective in engaging those who disagree, given the values typically held by women and Asians relative to others.
In retrospect, I can see why this can be taken the wrong way. I did not mean to cause any unnecessary offence which is why I took it down. Like many of those who believe in gender equality, it is my hope to see more men and women step forward to voice their opinions and be heard on the issues that matter to them. This is something which I am sure everyone would want. : )
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